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Thank you for writing this. It will help with explaining to others what comms are! I often struggle to explain people what is meant by comms due to not being as clear spoken as you are. You have a gift!

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Visual codes (what it’s really signaling)

   •   Setting = bar / lounge → social marketplace energy: attention, status, deals, temptation.

   •   Three archetypes → The Prize (center), The Watcher (standing), The Buyer/Validator (seated). It’s a power triangle: “who gets access?”

   •   Suits + liquor wall → money/status frame. This is about value + desire + negotiation, not just flirting.

Colorology

   •   Red dress = magnetism, confidence, dominance/visibility (also “danger/impulse”).

   •   Warm amber lights = comfort + indulgence + “lowered guards.”

   •   Blue suit = cool control / restraint / strategic observer.

   •   Overall: temptation wrapped in sophistication.

Language code (“cake” metaphor)

   •   It’s innuendo disguised as “food talk.” That’s a pattern: people say something “safe” while signaling desire.

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